“Ends are not bad things, they just mean that something else is about to begin.” – C. Joybell C.
Reflections
As my time in Jordan is coming to an end, I’ve been able to reflect a lot about what I have learned and experienced here. I am truly thankful for the opportunity to have lived in Amman with so many dear friends to share the challenges with. When I reflected on what I have accomplished here, I settled on a short list of 4 things that I am especially happy about.
- Advanced fluency in Arabic
- When I arrived, I was fumbling my way around giving directions to my taxi driver, but the longer I’ve been here the more confident I have become in my language and what I can achieve with it.
- Empowerment in a place that often strips it away
- Four main things have empowered me in a place that often strips away any power you think you may have: language, connectedness, sharing, and physical strength. I’ve progressed an incredible amount especially in dialect here, thanks to my tutor Sarah. Connectedness has helped me because I have a smartphone and 3G which means I always feel connected to my family and Farid, or the internet when I need it for translation or information. Sharing, because on average I share my life stories with Sarah for 3 hours per week, and it has been the coolest experience to connect in a second language and find my personality there. And finally, physical strength, because when I am frustrated and don’t feel welcome on the streets, I go to the gym and have a sanctuary of respectfulness from both genders and a place to challenge and strengthen myself.
- Putting my energy into something of value
- Whether it’s the kids I’m teaching how to write cover letters and CVs, or the girls I’m playing basketball with, or the high school students I’m helping get more civically engaged, it is fulfilling to know that your energy is going into something that has lasting value.
- Making sense of a bit more of the world
- I recently read an article about how the world’s best problem solvers are those who have studied or worked (or both) in a country very different from their own. The article said that these individuals are better able to make connections between seemingly unrelated things, and therefore think more critically and analytically. I’m privileged to have had this year to be able to make just such connections – and learn the skill that will stay with me cognitively for the rest of my life.
Dead2Red Race
As described in my previous post, on March 13 a team of ten of us ran 240km to raise funds and awareness for Reclaim Childhood. It was a grueling 21 hours of running without sleep, in the rain, without facilities – but oh, so worth it. Plus, we raised over $2,000 for RC!
Daily things
Since February, I’ve been teaching two classes at Princess Sumaya University. The first is the same MIS Business Lab that I taught last semester, but thankfully this semester I only have 15 students and we are able to do more activities in class. The students in class are surprisingly respectful, receptive, and quiet compared to last semester and my other classes. It has been a pleasure working with them to learn how to write cover letters, CVs, and have successful job interviews. I like teaching useful things.
My second class is the Technical (Business) Writing class of 55 students. The number in a writing class alone is daunting, but I’ve used some strategies to keep the classroom under control. I have also forced quite a lot of writing on them (a handwritten exercise every class) and many homework assignments. Again, I’m teaching them extremely useful material – many things I wish someone had taught me before I went to university. Subject matter has been: professional emails, CVs, cover letters, interviews, reports, proposals, bibliographies, etc. We have also been learning things not having to do with technical writing: the cost of plagiarism, why you shouldn’t always be late to class, teamwork, and last but not least how to format in Microsoft Word. It has become painfully obvious that your average student has not the slightest clue how to format Word, use proper capitalization and punctuation, and other basic things. Many of them are close to graduating.
The other morning, when I walked out from teaching my class at 9:30 a.m., I saw this lovely duo plowing the rose gardens.
Reclaim Childhood
I’ve been volunteering for an organization that seeks to empower girls through sport, play, and teambuilding. Reclaim Childhood is the same organization that we ran in Dead2Red to support. Over the last few months, I developed a rudimentary English curriculum for residents of a safe house, and taught the children the curriculum (with Arabic as the language of instruction). It was a challenging but rewarding experience to watch them start at a,b,c and 1,2,3 and build confidence in the language, and writing skills. In addition to writing the curriculum and teaching it, I also volunteered to play basketball and soccer with the girls every week.
One extra project I did with them was a PR campaign for the girls to be able to participate in the Dead Sea Children’s Marathon in Amman. I created some posters and Twitter/Facebook posts to send out, and then when the big day came I went to the race and the after party. It was sweet to see many Jordanian kids running together, or with their parents. During the after party, they had some giant Sesame Street characters dancing Debka (an Arab dance) up on the stage. So much to love.
AMIDEAST Jordan Internship
Beginning in March, I’ve been working on a team to develop a civic engagement course for marginalized, low income high school kids across Jordan. The Access Program funds 24 teachers to instruct over 400 students in English for 400 hours, as well as giving them a 20-hour course in civic engagement, problem solving, and critical and analytic thinking. My team has been responsible for developing the civic engagement 20-hour course from scratch over the last few months. We will also develop a teacher training workshop curriculum to explain the course and the strategies for teaching it effectively.
During the time that we were researching about civic engagement in the Jordanian context, we attended two student science workshops in the Access Program and met the kids we were developing the course for. It was fun to hang out with them, speak with them, and learn about their schools. We also asked around in the Jordanian community about what they think about civic engagement, and got a better understanding of what it means here. Altogether, the project has been very fulfilling, but also many hard hours of creative thinking that leaves us feeling exhausted.
One of the science workshops that we attended was creating a solar oven with a male class. They cooked us marshmallows, which ended up delicious.
Another of the workshops was a circuits tutorial for girls. They created a little house that had an electricity system inside.
Petra and Wadi Rum
Thanks to a dear friend, I finally made it to Petra and Wadi Rum after being in Jordan twice, and living here for a year. My favorite part of the experience was that we did everything in Arabic. Just the two of us went, so we had the leisure and time to slow down and learn more as we experienced the beautiful places. We hired a tour guide for Petra, and learned a ton about history as well as Arabic vocabulary. I was glad that I went to Petra at the end of my year here, because I understood 90% of what the guide said – plus how appropriate that I learned everything about Petra in the language that it “belongs to” now! We also had some great conversation with the restaurant and hotel workers, where at one lunch we paid only half the price because we talked to a kitchen worker from Syria about how he can enter the university system. We also had our tour of Wadi Rum in Arabic, which again made it much more special. Success! As expected, the views were breathtaking and the history was remarkable – Petra being a city that was built over 500 years (twice the life of the USA) and was abandoned between 500-1800 approximately.
We went to Petra by Night, which had 1500 candles lighting up the Treasury and the pathway to the Treasury. Then, of course we had our tour in the day and then went camping in Wadi Rum.
The little things
Then there is the Foosball Tournament at a local mall, where “real live boys” hold onto a rail and act as if they are the little bobble dolls in traditional Foosball.
Or Sarah’s surprise birthday where I negotiated the whole surprise with her mother on the phone in Arabic. Her dad drove us back after the dinner and party and we listened to American music coming over the radio waves with the windows down and the cool spring air swooshing into the windows.
Culture
I’ve been learning a lot about culture by studying the local dialect. During my Arabic lessons, I’ve been listening to a local Jordanian comedy show, “Female,” that premiered during Ramadan for the last two years. I’ve learned a lot of the jokes, and the ways culture defines language and vice versa.
Claire and I went to a classical music event the other night, which was refreshing. However, performance etiquette was lacking in the audience. There was no putting away of cell phones or sitting still, and there was much whispering in not-so-quiet tones. Hard to not be annoyed when we were both raised to be so still and quite to appreciate live performances.
But, endings are beginnings
I’ve already subletted my apartment for summer, and I will be leaving Jordan at the end of June. With this ending, I’m beginning a new chapter in Egypt.
I’ve been job-searching for two months, and haven’t heard anything back from Cairo, but I’m hoping that will change soon – especially since I have only a short time before I arrive. I’m sure I will have plenty to write about my new life there.